No Excuses
In a letter from my cousin this week he said, "the last thing people want to hear is excuses. Apologize it didn't turn out the best, plan, adjust, and move on." That got me thinking. How many times do I make lame excuses and why do I make them? The most common for me are excuses for not going somewhere/meeting someone or not doing house chores/misc. things that need to be done. You've heard them all before; probably even said them (or a variation of them) yourself.
"It's just been crazy around here" (said from your couch)
"The boys have been sick" (I wiped his nose yesterday...that counts, right?)
"I think I'll stay home tonight instead of going to the meeting I planned to attend" (even when there's not a reason not to go)
"I could've gone, but I was starting to get a headache" (my eyebrow twitched an hour ago, better not)
Honestly, who cares? So you didn't want to do something. We all feel that way. Often times we feel like we have to give a reason. News flash-you don't! There are times when an explanation is warranted, but more times than not you can leave it at "I didn't get to it" and be done. Many times we give excuses because we feel the need to apologize for our actions, even when an apology isn't needed or necessary. Excuses are also a way to avoid accepting responsibility for our actions. "I couldn't get to it because of the kids/my boss would not stop talking/people don't know how to drive. The list goes on. Step up, be accountable.
This week I am going to make less excuses. I am going to make a concerted effort to leave the excuses behind and take accountability for my actions.
End Rant. ;)
